Weight Loss Surgery May Lead To Better Sex… Or Not

romance1Well here’s another great gastric bypass surgery benefit: Better sex.

Maybe. If you’re a man with ED anyway. If you’re a woman, well, it’s all in your head. Isnt’ that typical?

Here’s what the article, “Hospital Says Weight Loss Surgery May Lead To Better Sex” has to say:

Does weight loss surgery lead to better sex? It certainly could, especially for men suffering from obesity-related erectile dysfunction. A clinical study recently published in The Journal of Sexual Medicine showed that obese men with erectile dysfunction had low levels of testosterone. As the severity of obesity increased, the levels of testosterone further decreased.

Excess abdominal fat, cardiovascular disease, high blood lipids and type 2 diabetes have been associated with erectile dysfunction. According to leading sex researcher Irwin Goldstein, M.D., this information may help motivate men to make healthier lifestyle choices

“This is a landmark study that shows sexual health is clearly linked to overall health,” said Dr. Goldstein, who directs the sexual medicine program at San Diego’s Alvarado Hospital. “Improving one’s general health is an opportunity to improve erectile function.”

However, similar benefits are not as clear for women. Obese women do report more sexual impairment than obese men. However, published studies indicate this may be more related to low self-esteem, unsatisfactory relationships, social stigma, and other psychological issues.

“A woman’s libido can be affected by many factors, such as the stress of caring for a sick relative,” Dr. Goldstein said. “There is no evidence yet to indicate that weight-loss surgery automatically makes sex better.”

He added that when it comes to sexual activity, body size doesn’t always matter. Thin, healthy people may be perceived as having the best body image and sexual function, but that is not always the case.

“There are plenty of sexually active heavy people and sexually inactive thin people,” Dr. Goldstein said. “I see them every day in my practice.”

Weight Loss Leads To A New Body Image
Just as weight-loss surgery requires life-long behavioral changes in nutrition and exercise, body image must also be addressed. As the pounds come off, patients often find other people start responding differently to them. It is not uncommon for a partner to expect more sex. Additionally, some patients may become uncomfortable about increased attention from strangers.

Then there’s the new reflection in the mirror. A weight loss of 100 pounds or more may leave folds of excess skin. Plastic surgery is effective, but it is costly and not always covered by health insurance.

Psychologist Lisa Steres, Ph.D., who provides counseling for bariatric surgery patients at Alvarado Hospital, says it can take years for a patient’s brain to catch up with the new body. As part of her pre-surgical evaluation, she asks delicate yet direct questions: How has the weight impacted sexual relationships? How do they expect the weight loss to impact their sex life?

“Body image greatly impacts libido, particularly in women,” Dr. Steres said. “Young women typically have better body image, and some women are sexually confident at any size.”

Dramatic changes during the transition to a normal weight can impact self-esteem and confidence. During the pre-surgical evaluation, Dr. Steres prepares patients to expect this, so they may come back and discuss it if necessary.

Dr. Steres said that both patients and partners typically go through stages of being relieved about the reduced medical concerns, but are then surprised at their own responses to the excessive skin that often results from massive weight loss. Some patients choose to consult with a plastic surgeon, while others are just as content as they were before the weight loss.

“Occasionally, a woman doesn’t like how she looks after surgery without her clothes on,” Dr. Steres said. “But when patients are basically happy people in loving, caring relationships, we find they work these things out.”

Basically happy people in loving, caring relationships can still feel icky about how they look with clothes off.  And I’d say that happens a heck of a lot more often than “occasionally.”

The bottom line is that gastric bypass affects pretty much every aspect of life. And we’re all different. But we will be affected.

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